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We've Moved.

2011-06-29T19:36:00.002-04:00

This blog has moved to charissacosta.com. See ya on the flip side!

Bad Blogger

2011-06-16T11:13:00.004-04:00

It's amazing how - even when writing blog posts mentally during the day - I just never get around to actually writing and posting them. There is just SO much going on, that it's easier to post a one sentence comment on Facebook than it is to post a deep analysis of some moderately interesting topic on my blog.

I have been a bad blogger this year.

My blog is soon moving over to WordPress (charissacosta.com), and this move has taken a lot of my time. Blogger hasn't been a great blog partner in the last few years - no great updates or improvements - and WordPress plugins, are, well, just cooler. In addition, it has been a great experience learning more about WordPress programming and customization. I'm taking on a few projects for friends that will likely be based in WordPress, and there's bmorecharitable.com, the philanthropic project that Jess Dijak and I are getting off of the ground that we managed to get up and running over a weekend.

Next up? Maybe Joomla, just for fun. I think I need to hone my programming skills a little bit more...

Oh, goodness...

2011-04-10T10:27:00.002-04:00

I haven't blogged since early March? Yikes. I need to get on this.

Since March:
- Antonio is on two more medications/remedies
- My sleep test came back ok for apnea, but I have decreased stage 3/4 sleep
- My thyroid levels came back borderline, might be hypothyroid
- I've been working out for 3+ weeks, and I'm starting to notice changes
- Been eating a lot of salad

There you go. You're up to speed. I'll think of something more interesting soon. Promise.

Those Who Trespass Against Us

2011-03-07T18:40:00.003-05:00

My car was rummaged through again last week. I'd like to tell you when it occurred, but since I rarely drive anymore, I just can't be sure. Do I lock my car? Yep. Did I leave my car unlocked? Possibly.

I'd like to say that I was horrified or violated... or affected somehow, but the truth is that after doing a quick mental inventory of the items in (or not in) my car, I cleaned up and shrugged it off.

It's amazing how eight years of living in Baltimore can change someone. Not that this is by any means a representation of how much I've changed, but it's telling. I don't really care anymore. When all was said an done, I tossed the papers back into my glove compartment, the chargers back into my center console, took note that I'm down about $1.50 in change, and moved on.

At least they left my collection of Bed, Bath and Beyond coupons...

Spring

2011-02-18T12:03:00.003-05:00

I would be perfectly contented living in a place where it was always Spring. I'd manage the chill, dance in the rain, stomp in puddles, and hell... I never really liked myself in shorts anyway.

Thoughts on Moving

2011-02-15T19:23:00.004-05:00

By the way, before I get into this post, I would like to agree that I have been a terrible blogger. God awful. I know. I'm determined to do better by the 5 people who might actually read my blog anymore. So there you have it. I'm sorry. Let's move on...

So, a few thoughts on moving... I absolutely had no choice today but to throw away all of the St. Jude's free address labels that I've been hoarding (yes, hoarding) for the past five years. YAY! Whether I sent money or not (mostly not), I have no need to feel guilty anymore because I'm not using something that I didn't pay for. What a relief! It's such a weight lifted off of my shoulders! I wonder how long until I get them at the new address... Christmas?

Another interesting observation: I had to pay a bill (Patient First) with an actual check today. Remember checks? I'm not actually sure where my checkbook is at this point, but I came across a new box of checks with... you've got it... my OLD address on them! And here's the kicker: I spent FIVE years working my way through the checks with my old, old address on them, so I wonder how long I have to live here before I make it through this box... ah, well.

2011

2011-01-01T13:57:00.001-05:00

I have high hopes for you, 2011... the last two years have been a struggle at times, what with losing three grandparents and all, but I'm absolutely sure you're going to pull through for me. Let's do this!

Obituary for Thomas H. Parks

2010-12-03T10:34:00.002-05:00

Thomas H. Parks, 87, passed away after a long illness, Dec. 1, in his home.

Tom was a veteran of WWII where he served as a sergeant in the 457th B-17 group of the Army Air Corps based north of London at Glatton.

After the war, Tom started Tommys’ Sunoco Station and later with his friend, Don Kittle, started and ran the Akron Motor Clinic, both in Akron.

In his many years, he also worked for Motor Cargo and Consolidated Freightways where he earned many safe driving awards.

Tom enjoyed family and friends, working with his hands, fixing, repairing or building something, and then a cold beer and jokes. He often referred to himself as a jack of all trades, master of none.

Thomas was preceded in death by his wife of 57 years, Patricia Mackie Parks, and his parents, Clara and Thomas Parks, Sr. He is survived by his three children: Donald (Phyllis) Parks, Pamela (Alan) Costa and Dave Parks, grandchildren Melanie (Christopher) Pepe, David (Jeanne) Parks, Charissa Costa, and great grandchildren, Calista, Zavier, and Jude Pepe and Audrey Parks.

The family would like to thank Barb and Janet from Visiting Nurse Service for their care and kindness during his illness.

Friends may visit on Monday, Dec. 6th, from 6 to 8 o’clock at the Hennessy-Bagnoli Funeral Home, 936 N. Main St., Akron followed by a service officiated by Pastor David Parks II. Burial of the ashes will be at Chestnut Hill Cemetery, at 2613 Sackett Ave, Cuyahoga Falls on Tues. at 11:00 a.m.

In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to Haven of Rest or The Salvation Army.

Project EAT: Turkey Burgers

2010-11-30T21:53:00.003-05:00

Tonight we have previously frozen turkey burgers (for how long? don't ask) flavored with a BBQ seasoning packet (how long have I had it? don't ask), and very recently purchased colby cheese. These may be delicious or they may gross, but I won't know until tomorrow when I have one for lunch. But regardless of how they taste (I think), that's two less frozen turkey burgers in my freezer, suckas (just kidding)!

Project EAT: Pasta and Sausage

2010-11-29T20:09:00.003-05:00

I had the very last of any Thanksgiving food for lunch so it was time to make a real meal for dinner. Here we have spaghetti, hot turkey sausage, and yummy pasta sauce.

I would also like to share a newly discovered weight loss trick. Ready? Make really spicy food (I put jalapeños in the sauce) so that you have to drink lots of water... and before you know it: you're full! (Of water.)

I know. I'm clever. You can thank me later. :)

Project EAT: Pasta

2010-11-28T10:10:00.004-05:00

I have a sneaking suspicion that pasta may be a mainstay during the next few weeks. I have so much of it. I also have a few jars of sauce and some sausage, but I didn't feel like putting forth that effort this morning, so buttery noodles it is. Breakfast of champions...

Project EAT: Salad

2010-11-27T21:03:00.005-05:00

Today I am kicking off Project EAT, which is essentially eating all of the food out of my apartment before I move. The day started fine, I ate the last of my salad and then Thanksgiving leftovers for an early dinner. I still have plenty of food, but I failed to realize that I have absolutely no snacks. None. No chips (which isn't unusual), no triscuits (for shame!), no popcorn... nothing. About five minutes ago I started feeling hungry and went into full panic mode. I'm currently baking the last ten tater-tots from my freezer to snack on, and ate one slice of cheese.

I should note that there's one exception: I am allowed to buy as much bread and milk as I want. I love milk and don't want to give that up, and with bread I can work my way through the peanut butter and jelly/jam/honey/etc. I might need another exception of $5 per week allowance to buy something new, but I'd prefer not to do that. I can't decide... but it's only day one and I've got serious munchies. Damn it.

BBJ Edge

2010-11-19T18:04:00.005-05:00

Do you subscribe to the Baltimore Business Journal? If so, pick up today's copy (November 19, 2010) and flip to the Edge section. There you will find a lovely article entitled "Priceless or Paperweight?" (Adam Stone) and a photo of yours truly.

You know, when the photographer (Nicholas Griner) came out to snap a few shots of me a few weeks back, he showed me a few of the photos he took and they were super cute! So why they chose this silly one, I really don't know. Maybe to show my dorky side? Maybe to balance the oh-so-serious photo of Mr. Rainey right above me? Not sure. Oh, well... how vain can I be anyway? (Pretty vain, it seems.)

Antonio's New Nicknames

2010-11-10T20:07:00.003-05:00

Antonio has a long history of nicknames, including:

'Tonio
Puppy
Pooper
Poop
Weiner Dog
Handsome
Stinker
Stink

... and so on. But recently I've added a few others to the list which, I believe, are particularly creative.

Mr. T (pity the fool!)
Frankenbelly (for obvious reasons)
Office Depot (because Staples was too obvious)

"He's also interested in bowling."

2010-11-05T11:09:00.000-04:00

If you know what I'm talking about... you'll snicker when you read this. Oh, joy.

Help a Small Ad Agency Win Big!

2010-10-25T16:42:00.002-04:00

Hi Baltimore!

I work for a small ad agency up for a BIG advertising award. We're looking for help (and votes) to help us win! Please help us get votes by going to the website below and selecting "Flying Brick Radio: Common Sense"!

Link: http://www.zoomerang.com/Survey/WEB22BCDVWWFUN

Thank you! With your help, our small agency can win VERY BIG recognition!

Antonio the "Difficult Medical Case"

2010-10-20T21:41:00.008-04:00

I have read more articles and stories about dogs and illnesses in the past few months than anyone should ever read. Antonio and I saw the vet again today, and together the doctor and I began listing all of the symptoms that have begun to afflict my poor dog during the past four months. Here is the list as it is today, in case someone, like me, does a web search looking for answers for their sick pet. We're scheduled to see an Internal Medicine Specialist next Wednesday.

Antonio
Miniature dachshund
10 years of age
10-11.5 lbs normally

Recent Symptoms Include:
Depression/mood changes
Lethargy/Weakness/Confusion
Excessive drinking/urination
Refusal to go on walks
Refusal to use the stairs
Disinterest in play/toys
Significant weight gain (currently 14.6 lbs)
Distended stomach (no fluid that we can tell)
Vision problems/blindness
Liver bile acids tests well over 100 fast/post fast (150/240)
Inconsistent elevated calcium levels
Inconsistent elevated blood sugar levels
Swollen lymph nodes
Elevated heart rate (on occasion)
Slightly labored breathing (with elevated heart rate)
Dry/cracked nose

Xray/ultrasounds show:
- No visible liver shut
- Stomach cyst
- Slightly enlarged liver
- Slightly enlarged kidneys
- Adrenal gland tumor (7mm)
- Stomach cyst (unknown origin)
- Gallbladder sludge (no blockage)
- Calcification in soft tissue near hip

Medications Prescribed During This Time:
Tramadol
Denamarin
Ursodiol
Amoxicillin
Metronidazole
Hill’s Prescription Diet L/D

This is what we have seen to date, and the symptoms seem to wax and wane, suggesting a toxin or hormonal influence. We don't have much history on Antonio's blood pressure, so I'm measuring his heart rate at home and will take him in for a blood pressure check when the heart rate increases. Next Wednesday the specialist will most likely do another ultrasound and may suggest laparoscopic surgery to obtain internal biopsies and images.

Diagnoses That Have Been Discussed:
Cushing's Disease
Liver Disease
Some Unknown Neurological Cause
Gallbladder Disease (rare)
Bone Cancer
Lymphoma
Pheochromocytoma (rare)

I wonder...

2010-10-08T10:30:00.004-04:00

I really wonder what dogs think about elevators. I was reminiscing this morning about bringing my dog to work once on the weekend to pick up a few things, and I watched him as we entered the elevator, the door closed, and then we exited the elevator on a completely different floor. Dogs are relatively spacial, right? When a ball rolls under a couch or a piece of furniture, they know to check to see if it came out the other side. So what does he think about door opening and closing and the entire world changing on the other side?

I must say that I expected him to be frustrated or confused, but he didn't seem to care or notice - he just seemed to accept that everything was okay. And at the end of the day, maybe I'm a little disappointed at that. Not that I would ever want him to be worried or upset, but some reaction or contemplation would be cool.

Oh well. I suppose dogs don't think about elevators at all... but clearly people do. At least this one. Or maybe I'm just thinking about dogs...

"Wait" versus "Await"

2010-09-03T13:37:00.003-04:00

I just found myself pondering the difference between "wait" and "await" and figured I'd share my findings.

Await is a more formal word, and unlike wait, it does not take the preposition for.

For example:
...awaiting his arrival...
...what awaits him next...

Good to know, because I was using it on a client status report, "Awaiting feedback" and it looks like I was using it correctly.

Coolio. (Yes, I just used "coolio.")

No one to tell.

2010-08-31T00:44:00.004-04:00

It's 12:43 AM on Tuesday, August 31, 2010... and Facebook appears to be down. Yep. I'm getting the following error:

I checked Mashable.com and nothing had been reported, but still the error. The problem is... there's no one to tell. I mean, who even reads blogs anymore?

;)

Activism

2010-08-29T22:37:00.001-04:00

“You’re either an activist or an inactivist. I want to stop this.”

-Ric O'Barry

I hate being an inactivist, dammit.

The Bad Weekend Survival Kit

2010-08-16T20:02:00.006-04:00

One girl's survival kit for a bad weekend:

Two glasses of red wine
'Anne of Green Gables' on DVD
Three hard taco supremes from Taco Bell
One whole bag of Ruffles potato chips with
One whole container of Heluva Good Sour Cream and Onion chip dip
Many, many deletes off the PC
'Anne of Avonlea' on DVD
Shopping at Ann Taylor Loft
One beer with a good friend
A lot of phone calls
A few good cries

But not necessarily in that order.

Big Brother 12 (BB12) Thoughts To Date

2010-07-18T23:44:00.002-04:00

Um... okay. I didn't see the Annie thing coming (CA, I know you asked, and I thought it might be Britney), but already CBS has managed to launch something that COULD be cool, and end it - all in one week. The tag line for the season is "The Summer of Sabotage," so now that the saboteur has been voted off after only 4 shows, goodness knows that CBS must be hard at work trying to write in other ways to leverage this theme. I really, really love this show... but for some unknown reason it's already irking me this year.

You know what really bugs me about Big Brother casts? Alliances that think they're "the best alliance" in BB history when we've just barely started the season. I swear this happens every year. There will never be another "Four Horsemen" or "Chilltown," and by even stating that you think you are means that the end is in sight for these fools. I bet $5 that Enzo had the name "The Brigade" picked out before he even stepped foot on the set. My favorite alliance is still Jason and Danielle from season 3. What can I say? I'm old school.

Take note: I think that Brendon and Rachel are going to put up either Hayden and Matt or Hayden and Enzo. Why? Because Brendon's no dummy, and he needs to use Rachel to take out his physical competition. Rachel probably won't make it to the end because the couple has the 'Jeff and Jordan' mark on them, but Brendon has the potential to go far if he can break up the boysome early.

So... what else is there to say? I'm going to miss most of BB12 this week while I trek to Indy for my first ever NASCAR experience, so I'll have to get caught up next Sunday/Monday and chime in then. The highlight of the season so far for me was watching Kristen during the live vote. Why, you ask? Because I already forgot about her completely. It was like the first episode all over again... "Look! A new player!"

BB12: Episode 1

2010-07-08T20:42:00.003-04:00

And so Season 12 of Big Brother begins, and I completely forgot about it. Luckily I was cruising the Comcast guide for something interesting, and there it was: Big Brother Season 12. Sweet.

But here's the thing: So far, no one is really catching my eye. There are some pseudo-interesting folks for sure, but no tattoo-covered punks, pair of middle-aged player outcasts, or token nerdy female like in seasons past. I give CBS a little credit, though, for the token African-American, token gay, and a (surprise!) Jewish cast member - yarmulke and all - but I gotta say that at least from first glance, the cast looks pretty bland. In fact, you know what they look like? They look like the cast of Real World! (And we don't really need another Real World, do we?)

So Episode 1 (at least for me) was a let down. Sure, it's interesting that there's a saboteur, but he or she hasn't done much yet, so that's not too exciting; and besides, what's with the creepy saboteur videos? Is that really necessary?

My highlight of the week? "I lost my dignity on a slippery wiener," said Britney. Priceless.

Do Me A Favor

2010-06-23T22:55:00.006-04:00

There is something frightening going on today in America. Terrifying. And although it's spreading across the 50 states at an alarming rate, the source is clearly Hollywood, California. It's an epidemic, and it's called 'remake mania.'

Charlotte's Web (1973) - remade 2006
Clash of the Titans (1981) - remade 2010
The Day the Earth Stood Still (1951) - remade 2008
Fame (1980) - remade 2009
Hairspray (1988) - remade 2007
The Karate Kid (1984) - remade 2010
Planet of the Apes (1968) - remade 2001 (prequel set for 2011)
War of the Worlds (1953) - remade 2005
Willy Wonka & the Chocolate Factory (1971) - remade 2005

And now Footloose? C'mon! Stop already!

When I heard about Footloose, the gears in my head started turning and after a little research I found a website which claims to know of remakes in the works. *Deep breath* And guess what else is on their list? The Best Little Whorehouse in Texas - you have GOT to be kidding me. Any remake of that film will be so terribly inappropriate that it will go straight to video. Maybe.

How about Hitchcock's The Birds, The Black Hole, or Dune? I know, Dune!

Well did you know that Ghostbusters is on this list? Or Gremlins? What if they remake The Neverending Story? Who would play The Child-Like Empress to such perfection? And in all seriousness, how can they possibly remake Superman? I'm going on the record now and announcing my official boycott of that movie if they do.

This is painful. Sure, there have been a few decent remakes, but I'm so upset right now that I can't even think of one. There are some movies that deserve to be preserved in the decade they were produced in. No one is interested remaking Witness, are they? Or Spike Lee's Do the Right Thing? No. Because it's ridiculous! So instead they'll destroy 80s classics like Gremlins and Ghostbusters and ruin them with modern-looking special effects... remember what happened with the new Star Wars trilogy?

C'mon, Hollywood. There are thousands of starving writers out there and unemployment is high. Can't you hire a few of them and produce something original?

Just please, please do me one small favor. Just one... and yes, I want you to pinkie swear. Please don't remake Grease. And I'm not talking about Grease 2... I'm talking about John Travolta and Olivia Newton-John singing Summer Nights in the school yard. You'll destroy me, Hollywood, and you'll forever change the spirit and soul of karaoke duets.

Trust me when I say that you don't want the weight of this on your shoulders, or on your soul. Please, Hollywood... please?

Quote of the Week

2010-06-20T20:51:00.004-04:00

"It's also known as a 'flash mob,' but in Baltimore that means something different, so we call it a 'dance attack.'"

- CG, Dance Baltimore

The Jennifer Boycott

2010-06-19T17:55:00.003-04:00

I'm boycotting Jennifer Aniston. I'm so sorry, Jennifer. I like you, I really do. When Brad went flaky and left you, I was with you all the way, 100%, unequivocally. I think you're adorable, talented, clever and smart... and my guess is that you're a pretty great person... but I can't do this anymore. I just can't watch another Jennifer-Aniston-looking-cute kind of movie.

I feel the need to provide a parallel. I'm not a Jim Carrey fan. Not at all. I liked The Mask when it came out (can you believe that was 1994?), but nearly every movie that Jim Carrey does results in the same character from him. He never made me laugh, he made me cringe. Every role, every character was predicatable. I was done. But then there was an exception: Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind was awesome. For the first time, I thought, "Wow. Jim Carrey can really act and not be totally irritating." I love that movie, and although I am still highly irritated by Jim Carrey on occasion, he earned a whole new respect from me when that movie was released.

So this is what I'm looking for from Jennifer. I like her. I've liked her movies for years. But we've reached a point where I just want more. I'm tired of her playing the attractive but slightly damaged, slightly awkward middle-class income kind of girl who isn't looking for love but finds it anyway. Enough. I want her to do something more challenging... and honestly, until she does, I'm on a Jennifer Aniston boycott.

C'mon Jennifer! You can do it! Go call your agent and tell him that you want more. Tell him that you want to do something unexpected! Because until you do, I'm out, sister, and the boycott is officially on.

Starting now.

Little Known Fact #1

2010-06-12T16:28:00.002-04:00

If you leave cans of V8 (or canned sodas, I presume) in your trunk for a few months, the ink on the outside of the can will come off on your hands when you handle them. Yep. Just in case you didn't know...

What To Say About Glee?

2010-06-09T19:12:00.006-04:00

Lest I earn too much respect by writing only thought-provoking posts about interesting topics such as toothpaste and toilet paper, I'd like to say that Glee's season finale hurt my heart. It did.

Overall music and performances - fantastic. The editing of "Bohemian Rhapsody" and Quinn's labor - brilliant! The performance of "To Sir With Love" - just beautiful!!

All that being said, the episode didn't sit well with me. It just didn't. I mean seriously, they came in last? What was the point of that? Did I root for them all season just so I could be told that they're a rag-tag group of misfits? Well, now you're insulting my obvious good taste - and that just makes me mad!

But beyond the group losing at Regionals, there were other problems that can only be described as sloppy writing. Why was Olivia Newton-John such a b**** when she clearly liked Sue a few episodes back? Uncharacteristic. Quinn's mom is suddenly back in the picture? "My water broke." How convenient. Oh, and Shelby adopts baby Beth? C'mon! Everyone knows that white babies are in crazy demand in the US, and a random single nearly 40 year old teacher is lucky enough to adopt her on the spot?? PLEASE.

Like I said... my heart hurts. I'm so disappointed.

Overall, my favorite review came from the LA Times. Thank you Gerrick D. Kennedy. You and I are on the same page, my fellow Glee fan. Same. Page.

Apparently, though, I am in the minority... at least according to a People poll. When I took the poll Wednesday night, 81% of the pollsters claimed to be satisfied with the season finale. Really? What show were you watching? And now we all have to wait until September...

A Curiousity: Portion-Controlled Toilet Paper

2010-06-06T10:14:00.004-04:00

Yeah. Weird, right?

Yesterday I had the honor of attending a private party at Blue Hill Tavern in Brewer's Hill. I love Blue Hill. It's posh, classy and the food is simply delicious. Usually I stop in there for drinks or happy hour (try the hummus and fried guacamole), but I've been there a few times for lunch or dinner as well. It's fantastic, and I highly recommend a visit there.

But I digress... the restrooms at Blue Hill Tavern are equipped with automatic toilet paper dispensers, which I can't help but find incredibly strange. Am I alone in this?

Now remember that I'm a gal who likes technology. I'm all about being connected 24/7, and if someone could invent a phone, vacuum or blender that would also take out my trash... well, let's just say I'd be willing to pay a premium. But the restroom (to me) is a bit of a sacred place. I'm not really interested in any assistance when I'm in there.

So when I came across the automatic toilet paper dispenser yesterday I must admit that I became a little thoughtful. Who really wants this? There must be a benefit to having an automatic dispenser that balances the inconvenience of the purchase cost and battery replacement costs. So I did a little research... as it turns out, the manufacturers believe these machines offer a 20% savings for proprietors, working under the assumption that if you dispense less toilet paper (than people typically use) automatically, people will just go with it. Huh.

Well, for the record (and tip-toeing around TMI), I used two portions from the dispenser which is ten squares. I couldn't be comfortable with the mere five that I was initially offered. And apparently, I'm in the minority when it comes to using these dispensers. The manufacturer says, "Most people will take the amount given. People generally in life will take what you give them." Double huh.

So I'm not sure what the point of my post is really, except that as a technology-loving 30-something, I think an automatic toilet paper dispenser (or portion-controlled toilet paper) is weird. In a struggling economy, I suppose it's smart for business owners to look for more innovative ways to save money, but toilet paper quality and quantity shouldn't be negotiable in my opinion... I want what I want. But it's likely (yet again) that I may be in the minority. It sure would be interesting to know how much Blue Hill Tavern is saving in toilet paper costs, wouldn't it? Just curious...

Give Me That Old Time City Livin'

2010-06-05T07:16:00.004-04:00

I mean, really?

I've lived in the city for over 7 years, and I am quite the expert at parallel parking. This morning when letting out the dog, I woke up to this - and no, neither of these is my car.

Who in their right mind would park a car like this and leave it there? And worse yet: There's a booster seat in the backseat! My car is parked safely behind my apartment on the community parking pad, thankyouverymuch. Stupid neighbors...

Wow. Four Years.

2010-05-31T21:15:00.003-04:00

So I completely missed my blogiversary. Yes, bloggers celebrate blogiversaries. My blog was four years old last month, and although I vaguely remembered that it was coming up a month or so ago, it was Teena in Toronto who reminded me (Thanks, Teena!).

A few years ago I might have written up a long, thoughtful post about my last year, or even my last four years, but so much has changed in the last four years that I can hardly remember those days sometimes. I'm the same, but I'm different. I'm older (and, I like to think: wiser). Four years go by quite fast when you're out there living them, don't they?

I can only say that I've enjoyed having a voice to the world these last four years, even if my readers are far more limited today than they used to be. Our blogger group now communicates on Facebook, and those that were anonymous aren't any longer... at least amongst their friends. The whole world is online now. Everyone has their own little piece of the Internet - some more private than others. But I still have my blog... and I think, although I'm posting less, that I'll keep it for awhile longer. It's fun to have a soapbox to stand on - even if only a few people are around to listen. I like it here. I'm grateful to have this place to come to... and although I've had a few minutes of fame from time to time over the years, I'm just not convinced my fifteen minutes are up quite yet.

Here's to working on year five. :)

All In a SaturDAY's Work

2010-05-08T18:31:00.001-04:00

When all else fails: PAPERCRAFT.

A Cool Commute

2010-05-05T09:55:00.002-04:00

The 'New Job' Playlist

2010-04-21T20:37:00.007-04:00

Driving home from work today it occurred to me that I require a new playlist. Specifically, I need a 'new job' playlist. And I need it STAT.

I've spent the last week listening to a strange combination of faves: Kate Campbell (folk), Shane McAnally (country), the GLEE soundtrack, and the Gabe Dixon Band. They're all great, but they're all lacking a theme or tone that makes them suitable for my new playlist. I need songs that say, "Look out world, here I come!" Songs about optimism and strength. Songs that inspire, excite and motivate!

So here I am, a week and a half from starting a new chapter of my life and my career, and I'm reaching out to you to help me develop this list. Let's work together to create an awesome 'new job' playlist that energizes, gets my blood pumping, and hell, is searched for enough on the Internet that my web stats go up (at least a little). What? I'm a multi-tasker!

Send me your songs, people!

Under Consideration - Updated 4/21/10:
- 9 to 5, Dolly Parton
- River of Dreams, Billy Joel
- It's My Job, Jimmy Buffet

Under Consideration - Updated 4/22/10:
- Would I Lie to You, Eurythmics
- Money for Nothing, Dire Straits
- She Works Hard for Her Money, Donna Summer
- I Got You (I Feel Good), James Brown
- Take This Job and Shove It, Johnny Paycheck
- Dancing Queen, ABBA
- Papa's Got a Brand New Bag, James Brown
- Day-O (The Banana Boat Song), Harry Belafonte
- School's Out for the Summer, Alice Cooper
- Independent Woman, Destiny's Child
- Manic Monday, The Bangles
- Movin' On Up, Theme from The Jeffersons
- Be Here Now, Mason Jennings
- Sex on Fire, Kings of Leon
- Soul Sister, Train
- I Bet You Look Good on the Dance Floor, Arctic Monkeys
- Everybody Wants You, Billy Squier

Under Consideration - Updated 4/23/10:
- I'm Alright, Jodee Messina

Under Consideration - Updated 5/1/10:
- Right Here, Right Now, Jesus Jones
- Suit Yourself, Kate Campbell
- Bang on the Drum All Day, Todd Rundgren
- It Don' Matter, Donavon Frankenreiter

Final New Job Playlist!
- Movin' On Up, Theme from The Jeffersons
- She Works Hard for Her Money, Donna Summer
- I Got You (I Feel Good), James Brown
- It Don' Matter, Donavon Frankenreiter
- I'm Alright, Jodee Messina
- School's Out, Alice Cooper
- Right Here, Right Now, Jesus Jones
- Money for Nothing, Dire Straits
- Day-O (The Banana Boat Song), Harry Belafonte
- Independent Woman, Destiny's Child
- Would I Lie to You, Eurythmics
- Everybody Wants You, Billy Squier
- Suit Yourself, Kate Campbell
- River of Dreams, Billy Joel

Learning the Accordion

2010-04-03T10:33:00.003-04:00

Learning the accordion is hard. Difficult. Nearly impossible. I am trying to learn the piano accordion in part to honor my recently deceased grandfather who was a Master Accordionist. Yes, a "Master." Gone are the days when one could be a Master at almost anything, but up until October 2009, my grandfather, Anthony "Val" Costa, taught and performed accordion for many after some 70 + years of playing. My dad, Alan Anthony Costa, also taught and still plays the accordion, so how better to honor my family than to give this instrument a shot?

So late last October, I decided to bring one of his 12 bass "learning" accordions back to Baltimore, and although I couldn't pick it up for a few months (it just made me too sad), I finally started playing in January and decided to learn what I could on my own.

Now I think it's important to note here that I have not practiced as much as my grandfather and dad would have me practice; It has been sporadic. But I am recommitted to learning this instrument, and this morning I picked it up again for the first time in weeks and decided to try my hand at playing the bass (the side with the buttons).

Here is a short video showing what I accomplished today. I am pretty darn proud. It's a tiny, teeny, itty bitty step, but it's a step nonetheless. Enjoy. :)

Toothpaste. Yeah, I Said It.

2010-03-01T23:12:00.002-05:00

Okay... so I haven't blogged in awhile, but I'd like to reflect a moment on toothpaste. Yes, toothpaste. As a single woman, I don't buy a lot of toothpaste - one tube lasts a long time so it's not something I find myself in need of frequently. That said, this week I found myself at the grocery store shopping for a new tube of toothpaste... and I'm disturbed.

Yeah, I said it: I found the toothpaste section of the local grocery store disturbing. Standing there looking at over 50 different kinds of toothpaste, I realized that there is clearly no way to tell one tube apart from the next. Nearly half of the tubes say 'Crest' and the other half (or so) say 'Colgate,' but what is the difference? Which is the better brand? Is there a clear winner? Certainly in canned fruit there is a primary brand (Del Monte) and a secondary brand. The same goes for most other products: crackers, cheese, ice cream, paper towels, etc. But who wins in the Crest vs. Colgate toothpaste competition?

So I decided to take it to the next level. I was looking for an oral health brand. I have veneers so I have no need for whitening toothpaste, but OOPS: This country is OBSESSED with whitening. Nearly all tubes said something about whitening: Scope Whitening, Advanced Whitening, Whitening Plus, Baking Soda Whitening, Luminous Whitening, etc, etc, etc. What happened to the dental health and hygiene toothpaste? Doesn't anyone care about gum health anymore? Maintaining tooth enamel? Getting the benefit of clean, fresh breath?

After a lot of consideration, I settled for the Aquafresh (notice no Crest or Colgate) Extreme Clean toothpaste. Yes, it claims to whiten, but it features "micro-active foaming action and whitening" - with the word 'whitening' in smaller letters that the word 'clean.' It's for a "Deep Clean," which is what I think most people should be looking for in a toothpaste... but instead we're obsessed with the brightness of them.

It's a whitening-crazed world out there, folks. Which toothpaste do you use?

King of the Mountain

2010-02-08T20:34:00.002-05:00

Reader Poll: Afghanistan

2010-01-04T19:33:00.003-05:00

It will be interesting to see how many people actually respond to this since my daily readers have hovered around 40 for the last two months... maybe the Susan Boyle fans are still here? (They did good things for the stats!) :)

Anyway... The Poll: If one wanted to know what's going on in Afghanistan - you know, the whole "Operating Enduring Freedom" thing - would you choose:

- "Politics" or "US & World" on MSNBC?
OR
- "World" or "Politics" on CNN?

Um, thanks, news folks for the easy access to either of the two wars we're fighting. It certainly doesn't feel like "politics" that we have thousands of troops in other countries fighting battles daily (but maybe it is), and yet "world" is an awfully generic category as well. I mean, should an update on Afghanistan really be next to "Dubai renames tallest building..." or "Seoul battles heaviest snow in 70 years"?

As per usual, most good, God-fearing Americans have forgotten about current events which don't affect them directly, and it seems that most people are so disinterested in Afghanistan and Iraq at this point that there's no need to make it easily accessible on news sites. Crazy stuff, friends... crazy stuff. And that's all I have on that subject.

Inspiration: Susan Boyle

2010-01-02T14:33:00.004-05:00

I'm being lazy today, and I'm sitting at home crocheting and watching movies. The perfect day - I love it. While browsing the free movies (there are so many) I caught a sneak peak of The Susan Boyle Story, and instantly looked it up to watch. Seriously... has there ever been a story that touched you like this one? I'm curious if non-singers react the way those of us who love to sing react when they see or hear of Susan. It's part jealousy, I suppose, but mostly I feel pure bliss and pride. She's exceptional. Her talent is extraordinary. She's impossible not to love, and she deserves all the fame she has (and will) receive.

Nothing brings me as much joy as watching or hearing her sing these days. It's just beautiful. Go and watch it if you have an hour or so to spare. It's worth it.

On Comcast go to:
On Demand
TV Entertainment
TV Guide Network
The Susan Boyle Story Parts 1-4

2010

2010-01-01T10:08:00.002-05:00

I've contemplated 100 different ways to return to blogging, and who'd have thunk that watching 'Julie & Julia' would be the inspiration I needed to sit down today and type. 2009 was so difficult in so many ways, with more disappointments, regrets and losses than I think I've ever had in any one year. Not that it was a horrible year - I still had a great time with work, friends and family - but 2009 was colored by more sadness than I'd ever care to repeat in a twelve month period.

But enough of that.

My apartment is a mess. A total mess. Papercraft supplies have been moved into storage to make room for crocheting supplies and blankets - a few made by relatives long gone. An accordion sits in my living room, a skateboard is stored under the shelving unit in my kitchen, and oh! My kitchen. My kitchen is full of dishes from my Grandparents' house - a Fiesta serving dish, PYREX nesting bowls, and a (nearly) full set of pink and blue Fortecrisa glass dishes and bowls. All of my IKEA stuff is headed off to Goodwill soon - there's simply no room for it next to my Grandmother's cookware.

In my bedroom, a blanket rack now sits in the corner with one of my own handmade blankets, my Grandmother's flower blanket (compliments of my Aunt Mary) and my Aunt Dorothy's crocheted shawl hanging on it. Somewhere underneath those treasures is a blanket made by one of my Great Grandmothers - either Costa or Sinisi. My underwear drawer (!) now is the home for several handkerchiefs with "E" embroidered in them (for Emma Sinisi), a rosary hangs on my lamp (even though I'm not Catholic), and my Grandma Parks' blanket is on my bed so that I can sleep under it every night.

To many, this may seem like sadness, and I won't lie - it is to some extent. How can it not be? But it's also a celebration. Charissa is her own woman with her own likes and dislikes, but she's also a result of the women who have come before her, and how lucky I am to have these things to hold on to. They defined these women in many ways, and those women define parts of me.

So a lot has changed over 2009, and I don't have particularly high hopes that 2010 won't be without it's difficulty - for Heaven's sake, I already have a two foot crack across my windshield (thank you, cold weather) - but through it all I continue to grow and change and evolve. Not too far from the Charissa you know, mind you... but these things, these women, my history... it provides 'seasoning' on a life already in progress. I only hope to live up to the hard work and loving hearts of those that came before me... wish me luck. And please come back soon...

Happy Halloween!

2009-10-31T19:39:00.002-04:00

For Rose and Val Costa

2009-10-21T10:13:00.003-04:00

1925 - 2009

What I will miss most

It was in her laugh
It was in his smile
The way she twinkled when I talked to her
The whispers in my ear
The hopes she had for me
The secrets we shared
The way he beamed as he watched
The little jokes he told
That expression of wonder on his face
The tilt of his head
Her happy delight in my stories
His magic fingers as he played a serenade
The way she watched him
The way he looked at her
The joy in the little things

These things I will always long for
These things I was blessed to share

Pamela Parks Costa
Oct. 2009

In Loving Memory of my Grandparents

2009-09-29T14:17:00.004-04:00

The Luckiest - Ben Folds

(music only)

I don't get many things right the first time
In fact, I am told that a lot
Now I know all the wrong turns, the stumbles and falls
Brought me here

And where was I before the day
That I first saw your lovely face?
Now I see it everyday
And I know

That I am
I am
I am
The luckiest

What if I'd been born fifty years before you
In a house on a street where you lived?
Maybe I'd be outside as you passed on your bike
Would I know?

And in a white sea of eyes
I see one pair that I recognize
And I know

That I am
I am
I am
The luckiest

I love you more than I have ever found a way to say to you

Next door there's an old man who lived to his nineties
And one day passed away in his sleep
And his wife; she stayed for a couple of days
And passed away

I'm sorry, I know that's a strange way to tell you that I know we belong
That I know

That I am
I am
I am
The luckiest

Survival

2009-09-26T23:41:00.003-04:00

It has been nearly three weeks since my last post, and I'm just hanging in there. The last few weeks have been filled with some tense times, and just this week - to put all of the other stress to shame - I lost my dear Grandmother, Rose Costa. I'm also blessed that I got home in time to spend some time with her at her bedside, but I am also horrifed. I am so deeply sad. Death is a reminder that life is fragile and confirmation that nothing will ever be the same again.

I'm now grandma-less. My Grandma, Patricia Parks, died a few years ago, and now Rose, another loving and strong woman, has left us this week. Both survived against insane odds with non-Hodkins lymphoma and Leukemia, respectively... and both reflect the strength and perseverance that exist in my bloodline. Death causes such a hole in your heart, and I fear that her death, compounded by the other stresses in my life, will be enough to hold me down for awhile. I'm at my limit of what I can take, honestly.

Well... I just felt like venting to the wider world. Thank you, friends, for your support and lovely messages. Each one of them was appreciated even if I haven't found the energy to respond just yet. I'm still reeling, so please keep me and my family in your thoughts for awhile longer, because once this shock wears off, we're going to need you more than ever.

I miss you so much Grandma... even if I am relieved that you are no longer suffering. You fought for a long time, and you deserve to rest in peace. All of my love... Rissa.

Cone. Head. Dog.

2009-09-08T22:24:00.002-04:00

Antonio Loves His Toy

2009-09-06T22:19:00.002-04:00

Filling My Free Time...

2009-09-05T15:36:00.000-04:00

Completed:
- Sopranos - done
- Oz - done
- Arrested Development - done
- Firefly - done

In Progress:
- The Hills- up to date through Season 5
- Dexter - up to date through Season 3
- The Wire - started over, so up to date through Season 1
- The Weeds - up to date through Season 5
- Nurse Jackie - up to date through Season 1

Under Consideration:
- Six Feet Under
- Deadwood
- Battlestar Galactica
- Lost

"Wanna Be Startin' Somethin' " performed by Jodi Beck

2009-09-01T23:56:00.001-04:00

"Wanna Be Startin' Somethin'" performed by Jodi Beck in NY, NY on 9/22/2009. Apologies for the poor quality at the beginning of the recording. I was told to move twice and had a hard time recording while also finding a place to stand. Regardless... Jodi Beck ROCKS!

Updating the Blogosphere on My New Hair

2009-09-01T20:42:00.002-04:00

Highlights from Virgin Mobile Fest!

2009-08-30T19:53:00.002-04:00

California-Style Israeli Salad

2009-08-29T11:44:00.003-04:00

I made this fresh deliciousness for a potluck at work. Yum!!!

NYC Highlights

2009-08-25T21:57:00.004-04:00

What a weekend. Although there will be no video evidence of our adventure, it has BEEN an adventure. This past weekend I performed with Jodi at her cabaret in New York. We, with Shoshannah, performed three Andrews Sisters songs together in front of an audience of 60 or more. Jodi performed an additional ten songs - and she was both inspiring and amazing.

So what a weekend! Add to that a surprise - three of my best friends from college flew in to see me perform, and it was likely the most amazing 24 hours I have had in years. I'm a lucky gal for the opportunity (thanks, Jodi), for the experience sharing what I love (thanks, Doug and Carol), and for the blessing of my friends.

Like I said... what a weekend.

Shoshannah, Jodi and I in the dressing room before the show.

The three of us on stage!

Jodi and I post-show. What an incredible person she is.

Doug and Jodi post-show.

Joe and I. Brother/future singing companion/whatever. Friend.

Stephanie, Angela, Brooke and I. They flew into New York to see me and gave me one of the only surprises I've ever had in my life. So clever.

Gettin' sassy just like we used to!

A circle of friends!

Ohio girls transplanted. Meredith, Jodi and I. Wish us luck, world!

T-12 Hours

2009-08-20T18:56:00.003-04:00

Yes... it is ALMOST THAT TIME! I have just over 12 hours until I sing with Jodi at her Cabaret in NYC! Even my hair is rehearsed! Don't forget:

Don't Tell Mama
Saturday, August 22nd at 8 PM.

trans⋅fer⋅ence

2009-08-15T03:02:00.000-04:00

A phenomenon in psychoanalysis characterized by unconscious redirection of feelings for one person to another.

The process by which emotions and desires, originally associated with one person are unconsciously shifted to another.

Nighttime Drinks!

2009-08-11T20:24:00.002-04:00

NYC in 36 Hours!

2009-08-11T07:12:00.004-04:00

Me, Doug and Jodi - post rehearsal.

Me, Mere and Pookie.

The girls at dinner.

NYC... Here I Come

2009-08-07T07:08:00.001-04:00

Tomorrow I head to NYC to see Jodi for a full 24 hours. We'll rehearse for her cabaret in two weeks and likely hang out a bit. Has anyone tried the Bolt Bus yet? I'm picking it up at Penn Station downtown tomorrow morning... and I'm a bit anxious to try it. Hopefully there aren't any shady characters on board... or at least near me.

Nicole Birthday Highlights

2009-08-02T09:46:00.002-04:00

Jodi's Second Cabaret!

2009-07-28T07:20:00.006-04:00

I'm re-announcing Jodi's Second Cabaret at Don't Tell Mama's in NYC on Saturday August 22nd at 8 PM. Both Shoshanna Richman and I will be joining Jodi for three Andrew's Sisters songs, which is terribly exciting - but we'll all be there to support Jodi if you are able to get up to NYC and join us.

Note: You might remember Jodi Beck Week last November? Video #1. Video #2. Video #3. Video #4.

So... who's coming?!

The 32 Project, Revisited

2009-07-26T09:54:00.008-04:00

So I'm officially 32, but my 32 Project has not been completed. No harm... it's a work in progress.

1. Finish watching the Top 100 movies. 65 down, 35 to go.
2. Charity: April 17th Formal Wear Happy Hour DONE! 45 dresses collected!
3. Charity: April 19th March for the Animals DONE! $343k raised!
4. Learn how to drive stick shift. Casey?
5. Lose the weight. Five or six pounds down.
6. Volunteering: Habitat for Humanity. Reconsidering. This one has been tough to fit in.
7. Charity: Tree Planting/Trash Pick Up. DONE! Planted 8 trees!
8. Volunteering: ~~Pets on Wheels w/ Antonio?~~ Retracting... replacing with Grow out hair to donate to Locks of Love.
9. Visit NYC/Have Jodi visit. This has been upgraded to singing with Jodi at her cabaret in NYC! 8/22! Woot!
10. Meet Joey Mac. June 23rd DONE! Saw NKOTB for the 3rd time with Cassie in June. Unfortunately... no meeting, but I'll live.
11. Try making crab bisque.
12. Organize an Ohio reunion. DONE. It was smaller than planned butt 10-15 folks showed, and we had a great time!
13. Go somewhere other than OH and NYC.
14. Read at least four books. 'A World Without End' completed. Working on 'Beautiful Boy.'
15. Digi scrapbook something.
16. ~~Buy fishnets (long story).~~ Retracting...
17. Try Yoga with my BFF.
18. See Heart live in Bmore! May 17th DONE! Great show!
19. Go through my storage unit and SIMPLIFY. DONE! Made $70
20. Go to an amusement park. DONE! Cedar Point was a blast!!
21. Find somewhere to take voice lessons. DONE! I'm on month two!
22. ~~Choose an Armed Forces charity.~~ Retracting... this group no longer supports this fundraiser. Considering ePals Foundation: Students and pen pals read books chosen by the student, and correspond online about the important issues in the books. Fun!
23. Start hiking. This one is on Katie.
24. Visit Marie (and get the Taylors to come here)!
25. See the Orioles! DONE! And we won!
26. Eat in Greektown. DONE! Samo's was delicious!
27. Pick crabs! Six years in Bawlmer... DONE! Twice!
28. Make more blankets! Of course, in progress! One DONE! Working on another!
29. Plan a Star Trek movie night! DONE!
30. See Kelly Clarkson. Scheduled 9/9 in York, PA.

31. See Journey. Scheduled 9/11 at First Mariner Arena.
32. Plan another girl's night. This is long overdue.

'Crazy for You' at Cockpit in the Court

2009-07-26T09:26:00.003-04:00

Last night I attended a show at CCBC's Cockpit in the Court summer theatre. The show was 'Crazy for You' - a Gershwin musical featuring lots of catchy music and a load of tap dancing and creative choreography. My friend and coworker, Lacy, is one of the dancers and the dance captain, and she did a terrific job! I highly recommend this show - but catch it soon - there's only one weekend left!

Note: Points if you attend next weekend. Extra points is you cheer like crazy when Lacy pops out of the car on stage in showgirl attire. Yep... it's just that fun. :)

Happy Birthday, Nicole!

2009-07-23T06:21:00.002-04:00

My friend, Nicole, turns 27 years old today! Happy Birthday!!

Artscape

2009-07-19T13:54:00.002-04:00

Artscape 2009, baby. My third year, and man, has it grown. A bunch of us met up in the afternoon yesterday, but it was insanely difficult to stay together with 100k people in attendance, so Karen and I ended up walking around together and shopping. I found two cool items this year: a new purse made by a group who uses some of the profits to support Asperger's research, and a new necklace made out of recycled materials.

Here is my new purse. Check out As If Bags for more info. They choose great fabrics and the products are all reasonably priced. This one here was only $35!

This terrific necklace was made by Mann Made Designs and the color is reversible with red on the back. It cost only $29! What a deal!

Fav Birthday Pics

2009-07-13T07:05:00.003-04:00

Just like an at&t commercial: More bars. More places. (Katie and Nicole - the party planners, and me.)

Me and my guyz.

Nicole and I - always a cute pic.

Me, Nicole, Gina and Jenny (in reverse order).

Me and my new friends. I look way more popular than I am.

Birthday kisses! At least I got a little attention on my birthday!

Another Blanket Done!

2009-07-11T17:00:00.004-04:00

I'm thrilled - my latest project (a blanket dubbed "green meadows," thanks to Annie) is DONE! This is officially my third blanket (Elliott blanket was #1, Audrey's Baby Blanket was #2), and I LOVE IT. Thoughts?!?!?

So I May Not Have Mentioned It...

2009-07-02T20:48:00.002-04:00

But I am SO EXCITED. I have been asked by my dear friend, Jodi Beck, to sing backup for her at her cabaret in August in NYC! I am so THRILLED. I'll be singing soprano for "Don't Sit Under the Apple Tree," Boogie Woogie Bugle Boy," and "Bei Mir Bist Du Schon." It's all Andrews Sisters stuff.

It's a good thing I started voice lessons, but I'd additionally thankful to Doug Silver for sending rehearsal materials! Yay! I can't stop singing!

Are you excited? Are you coming to the show? :)

Fav Pics from This Week

2009-06-28T20:55:00.004-04:00

Yikes!

2009-06-28T11:30:00.003-04:00

I haven't posted in over a week, but not for lack of events to discuss. Last week I had the most awesome trip home to Ohio - with a pseudo reunion, a day at Cedar Point, and a New Kids on the Block concert - not to mention all of the quality time with family. It was just under a week, and although I returned to the chaos and frustration of work and a few personal dramas, it was a needed break that I am grateful to have had.

A few thoughts about Cedar Point:
- I am getting older. Even the less thrilling roller coasters were exciting.
- I am more likely to notice potential safety concerns that ever before. I can't believe it's safe when the Mine Creek ride moves around the way it does.
- Water rides are overrated. So are wet shorts.
- Thrill rides have the potential to be more frightening that coasters. Skyhawke made me want to cry and run to mom.
- The red train on the Gemini CAN beat the blue train - even when the riders on the blue train are cocky, confident and loud.
- Chik-fil-a costs double.
- I'm glad the boat ride is still around. It was horribly cheesy, but a nice memory.
- Millennium Force still rocks my world. One of the best coasters ever built for sure.
- But Maverick was a pure joy. I wish I could have ridden it a few more times.It might now be my favorite coaster.

A few more thoughts on New Kids:
- I love sharing this with Cassie. No one understands my raw excitement more than she does.
- It's crazy that I still think they are hot as sin - whether they're nearing 40 years old or not.
- Joe's smile melts me like I'm a 12 year old.
- Danny is in amazing shape. He's insanely hot for once being the awkward New Kid.
- I can't promise that this most recent concert (third in a year) is my last. I have no plans for more right now, but it is way too much fun (especially with girlfriends) to ever consider stopping.

That all aside, life gets more complicated and interesting and frustrating every day. I'm 12 days from my 32nd birthday, accomplished in my career, my friends, and my activities, but always still missing the companion part of things. He's out there... and I may have to wait another year or so until I get him, but it's heartbreaking at times just the same. I've also been working out and seeing differences in my waistline and legs, but no weight changes yet which is irritating. And friends are also testing my inner strength lately. As a wise man once said, keep the tier one friends close, but sometimes you have to let the others fall away. I'm learning a lot about my ability to persevere this year... and I hope it all makes me stronger, happier and more satisfied in life. (As long as it doesn't kill me first, of course...)

The Best Gift Ever

2009-06-21T17:33:00.002-04:00

Cut and Color!

2009-06-19T22:31:00.004-04:00

Here are the results of my cut and color. The longest layer was only trimmed - just enough to keep it healthy for Locks of Love. The top layer was cut fashionably and colored. Do you love it? I do!

Come to the reunion to see it in person!

Bmore Orioles vs. NY Mets - We Win!

2009-06-17T20:07:00.002-04:00

Voice Lesson #2

2009-06-16T19:58:00.003-04:00

I was given my first song today... 'Children of Eden' from the musical of the same name. Oh MY is this song gorgeous. I sang it the whole way home in the car and then listened to the professional recording when I came home. After listening to it once, I decided that I will listen to it no more, because I think my version will be slightly more haunting than Stephanie Mills' version. My voice is also quite a bit younger than hers, so I want to do my own thing with it in my own way.

So, I'm ruined. Even as I practice this song tonight, I feel that I'm being swept up into the world of music. I may never be able to let it go again. It feels so damn good.

Crazy Baltimore Weather

2009-06-14T08:28:00.000-04:00

Especially for you folks who don't live 'round these parts... yeah. Lovely, eh?

Photos courtesy of Lacy Comstock's iPhone 3G.

Calling All Ohio Folk...

2009-06-09T22:15:00.004-04:00

... it's Just Another One of those Ohio Reunions!

Come one, come all! And bring friends! Let's have an Akron City Schools - Stow City Schools - Kent State - First Energy kind of reunion. (Okay... so it's everyone I still keep in touch with in Ohio, but WHATEVER!) Let's have a reunion and get our drink on!

Who: Ohio Folk
What: Reunion and Happy Hour
When: Saturday, June 20th at 9:00pm
Where: Winking Lizard Tavern - Fairlawn (Akron, Ohio)

NOTE: I am looking for someone to go to Cedar Point with me on Monday, June 22nd! My friend canceled!! Can ANYONE go?!

Voice Lessons (for Grown Ups)

2009-06-09T19:27:00.003-04:00

So... I had my first voice lesson today - the first in at least 15 years. It was good, I think. I like my teacher (or is she my instructor?) because she's very easy going, but I have a hard time relaxing to do all of the vocal exercises properly. Some problems: I look up, I look up and to the left, and I do the "chin up" thing before I sing... I guess a lot of chorale folks do it. I have decent transitions from chest voice to head voice, go nasal (not often but) at strange times, and I have to practice slurring because I have a hard time slurring correctly.

The creative Charissa inside me is excited, but the perfectionist Charissa is stressing. I can't help but feel a bit vulnerable - I'm the more real me when I'm singing than any other part of my life... and I don't even know her. What if I stink?

June Already

2009-06-07T17:15:00.008-04:00

Phew! I can't believe that it's June. Where did spring go? The weather has been so strange lately - back and forth between super hot and days of rain - so summer was able to sneak up on us quickly this year. This weekend I've been lazy, next weekend will be Honfest, and the week after next I'll be home in Ohio. Time is moving so fast.

Unrelated, my hair is super long. I don't know how it happened. It's really too long for my taste at this point, but I measured it last week, and, well... I've decided to keep growing it all summer and then donate it to Locks of Love. I'm super nervous about having short hair once its cut, but most of the work is already done so it's silly to let that stop me. It will be a nice thing to do. It's all about the karma. :)

Speaking of doing good things, I think I've decided that all fundraisers will be delayed until I return from Ohio. I did two in a row, and the next four weeks are already looking pretty full. I have my next theme all picked out, though, so hopefully you all will be feeling generous by mid-July.

That's all. I'm off to eat, watch a movie and crochet. Now I'm working on two blankets at a time - with two (one for Cassie and one for Baby Prevatt) scheduled for the next few months. Anyone else need a blanket?

Oh... photos from today at the park.

Hmmm...

2009-06-01T22:09:00.003-04:00

Pretty yarn, yes, but this pattern isn't comfortable. I don't know exactly what that means except that I don't think I can do a whole blanket in this pattern. It's not that it's hard because it isn't. But it's just not FUN.

Plus, I don't think the pattern is doing the yarn any justice. It makes it look cheap, I think. GRRR. I'm going to have to pull it out...

Tuna-Pasta Salad

2009-05-31T15:51:00.002-04:00

If there's one thing I enjoy, it's trying to cook from the weird stuff I have left in my house when a grocery trip is due. I made a version of this recipe, minus the pickle juice or milk... and, oh yeah, I didn't measure anything. I just guessed. So my delicious tuna-pasta salad is chilling in the fridge, and should be delicious for my lunch tomorrow.

A Week In Review

2009-05-31T07:23:00.009-04:00

So here's my catch-up post. The last week has been filled with parties, work, crab pickin' and work. But seriously, these are just the highlights. More photos on FB.

Some of Katie's friends had a "second birthday" for her - much like the Hobbits' second breakfast. I only stayed for awhile, but it was a lovely night and one of the first nights that Della Rose's had their outside bar open. Gorgeous!

Here are just Corie, Katie and I.

I also spent time at Gina's brother's house for his birthday party. Lots of flip cup was played, but I'm not very good at it, so I'm not sure how much I helped. We were also lucky enough to get a crazy Baltimore Police Helicopter fly-by since our birthday boy is a member of the police department. It was the coolest! The helicopter first circled the house very low so that it was nearly 90 degrees, then he did a CRAZY low fly-over. Loved it. We ended the evening in Tony's basement watching Toto and Hall & Oates in concert on the big screen. So fun!

Here are just the girls - at least those of us still there at the end of the night.

Lastly... I picked crabs. It was super-hard to document because your fingers get so dirty, but I picked three crabs by myself with CJ's detailed instructions. I couldn't have had a better teacher - she was so patient. I still think lungs and mustard are disgusting, but I learned to pick around it.

Here's me all blotchy - that's the international Charissa sign of stress and anxiety (check out the crab body in my hand).

Here's me all done! Dirty hands and everything. Woot!

Exercise

2009-05-29T21:10:00.002-04:00

Just a quick note about this new exercise regime I am starting. I started with Jillian Michael's 30 Day Shred, and I am starting P90x on Monday. I will be tracking my weight using this cool little Google tool - "The Google 15." My goal is about ten pounds, but if the muscle starts building that could change. I need to lose the FAT!

So good luck to you all - let's all do it together. Wanna walk? Call me! Wanna hike? Lets go! It's time to get in shape!

Blanket Update

2009-05-28T23:07:00.002-04:00

With bonus sleeping Antonio...

No Pain, No Gain

2009-05-28T19:36:00.002-04:00

I hurt. I've started Jillian Michael's 30 Day Shred to jump start the weight loss. It's 30 minutes, but it is brutal if you're like me and not used to it. A friend is sending me a copy of P90x tomorrow - so my discomfort will only get worse... and quickly.

All this is good. I need to tone up. So tonight post-workout, I am treating myself to Bell Pepper Nachos. Not as fabulous as the chips and drippy cheese kind, but a nice, healthier alternative. Mangia!

The New Blanket

2009-05-25T22:23:00.001-04:00

Antonio is a fan... comfy.

Over-Ambitious?

2009-05-25T11:43:00.002-04:00

So it's not like I don't have enough on my plate, but I've decided to start a neighborhood block watch. As many of you know, my car was rummaged through last week - possibly twice, and I just heard that two cars one street over were broken into last night. I won't stand for it. The last thing I'll stand for is to be taken advantage of at home where it's supposed to be 'safe,' so I have done my research this morning, made up a flyer, and I'll pass them out this afternoon to the twenty or so houses on my block. It's a small start, but manageable, I think.

Suggestions welcome.

Publishing

2009-05-24T12:35:00.002-04:00

Does anyone know anything about 'small time' publishing? I wrote a poem/children's book - one that I really believe in - and I'm contemplating getting it published. I'm open to considering a small run to see how it goes, but I'm just not sure what the process is, or the 'easiest way' to go about it. The poem will fail or succeed on its own merit; I'm fine with being small time. :)

Anyway, suggestions welcome. I'm looking for someone who knows about this process, because web sites on the subject are intimidating and complicated. Thanks in advance. (And thanks, mom, for the support.)

Food Prep

2009-05-21T20:58:00.005-04:00

Tomorrow is a coworker's last day at my company. She hasn't been with us too long, but we will most assuredly miss her. To send her off - we are throwing a pot luck lunch! So in preparation, I am doing double duty cooking for both tomorrow and for Sunday's cookout at the barn. At this point in the evening, I'm happy to report that #1 of 2 is completed!

Spicy Bean Salsa!

And now #2 of 2 is done... Creamy Dill Cucumber Salad!

As requested:

INGREDIENTS
1 cup fat-free milk
1/2 cup reduced-fat mayonnaise
1/2 cup reduced-fat sour cream
1 (1 ounce) package ranch salad dressing mix
2 tablespoons dill weed
1/8 teaspoon celery seed
1/8 teaspoon pepper
2 large cucumber, peeled and sliced
2/3 cup sliced red onion, separated into rings

In a small bowl, combine the milk, mayonnaise, sour cream, dressing mix, dill, celery seed and pepper. Stir in the cucumbers and onion. Serve with a slotted spoon. Better when refrigerated overnight.

Welcoming a New Chapter

2009-05-20T21:40:00.002-04:00

Yes, it's true... I've turned the last page, and I'm onto a new chapter in life: the chapter where there are no more books about dear, dear Kingsbridge. Oh, how I LOVED Pillars of the Earth! An amazing book! To even think that World Without End would compete was ridiculous... but it did. Boy, it did! It took Ken Follett 18 years to write World after Pillars, and I have an ache in my heart thinking that there won't be a third.

I'll miss Kingsbridge... dear, dear Kingsbridge. Those books have been gifts to my soul. Thanks, CA, for recommending them in the first place.

BARCS Fundraiser

2009-05-18T21:30:00.004-04:00

So this is it... my entire back seat is filled with towels and sheets for BARCS. There are so many back there that I honestly have no clue how many I have. It will be interesting to unload them... and, of course, present the towels and sheets with the check from Della Rosa's Tavern who also decided to support our little project. I've proud of you, friends! You came through! Woo-hoo!

Happy Birthday, Katie!

2009-05-18T21:13:00.001-04:00

So the photos are finally in... on Saturday we did a Luau Pub Crawl for Katie's 30th. A little too much drink was drunk, a little booty was shook, and a lot of fun was had by all. Happy 30th, my friend. You looked gorgeous and we all had such a good time!!

HEART - Live in Baltimore

2009-05-18T07:27:00.003-04:00

More photos to come of Katie's Birthday on Saturday once all of the photos are in from all of her friends, but here's a shot of us girls before the Heart concert at Pier 6 last night. Cameras were not allowed, so we snapped this one before heading in.

With the exception of Heart not singing What about Love? or All I Wanna Do is Make Love to You, and possibly singing a very slow version of Alone, it was a great show. I certainly have a new found respect for Barracuda. Thanks, girls, for the experience. I loved it.

BARCS Fundraiser

2009-05-16T09:52:00.004-04:00

Major success last night collecting towels and sheets for BARCS Animal Shelter. And what's better - there's still more coming because a number of people couldn't make it. Thank you to everyone for making the night both fun and productive. This city has a lot of stray and surrendered animals to take care of, and you should feel good that we're doing our part.

Note: If anyone has any donations, let me know ASAP, and I'll come pickup.

Tiffany and I - so good to see you!!

Casey and I

My BFFs - Jill and Rob

A whole backseat full of towels and sheets! So far, so good!

Gina's Birthday!

2009-05-10T21:52:00.003-04:00

The Ladies - Nicole, Gina and me!

Copying Jacqui's "Circle of Friends" theme - this is Nicole, Landry and I.

My fav - Me and Nicole like Thelma and Louise. Love it.

The 32 Project

2009-05-10T11:49:00.001-04:00

I'm still at a loss on the last three... but I've been making progress overall.

1. Finish watching the Top 100 movies. 60 down, 40 to go.
2. Charity: April 17th Formal Wear Happy Hour DONE! 45 dresses collected!
3. Charity: April 19th March for the Animals DONE! $343k raised!
4. Learn how to drive stick shift. This one is on Casey.
5. Lose the weight. Four pounds down.
6. Volunteering: Habitat for Humanity Waitlisted for two dates.
7. Charity: Tree Planting/Trash Pick Up. DONE! 8 trees!
8. Volunteering: Pets on Wheels w/ Antonio?
9. Visit NYC/Have Jodi visit. Working on dates.
10. Meet Joey Mac. June 23rd Tickets obtained!
11. Try making crab bisque.
12. Organize an Ohio reunion. Email sent.
13. Go somewhere other than OH and NYC.
14. Read at least four books. Page 382 of 1014 in 'A World Without End' now.
15. Digi scrapbook something.
16. Buy fishnets (long story).
17. Try Yoga with my BFF.
18. See 'HEART' Live in Bmore! May 17th Tickets purchased!
19. Go through the stuff in my storage unit and SIMPLIFY. Flea market scheduled!
20. Go to an amusement park. Cedar Point, anyone?
21. Find somewhere to take voice lessons. Email back from one voice teacher with info on private lessons. $50 an hour. Yikes.
22. Choose an Armed Forces charity. DONE! My ABCs... fundraising happy hours to come.
23. Start hiking. This one is on Katie.
24. Visit Marie (and get the Taylors to come here)!
25. See the Orioles! One game for work in the works ~ June 17th.
26. Eat in Greektown. Recommendations? Volunteers? Jill?
27. Pick crabs! Six years in Bawlmer - it's about time I try. This one is on CJ.
28. Make more blankets! Of course, in progress!
29. Plan a Star Trek movie night! May 8th! DONE!
30. tbd?
31. tbd?
32. tbd?

There Were Chicken Pox on Vulcan

2009-05-08T17:56:00.004-04:00

At least as far as I can tell. I saw a chicken pox scar on Spock today when the friends and I went to see Star Trek, which, by the way, was FABULOUS. Yes, it was amazing. The characters were near perfect, the designs/stylings/scenery were all modern/future, yet reminiscent of the original series, and it was a great mix of sci-fi action meets classic Star Trek humor to make you laugh. I definitely want to see this again. And soon. I absolutely loved it.

That said, I also feel that I should provide a brief update on my health since this lucky girl starts blood pressure medicine tomorrow. (I know... I get hotter all of the time.) In a nutshell: woke up with a headache Thursday and stayed home, had what felt like a heart-attack like incident Thursday afternoon which lasted about twenty minutes (and scared the crap out of me), went to doctor Friday where I passed an EKG fine, got a prescription for blood pressure medication, and scheduled a brain MRI for Monday. So... I'm okay. Still on edge after the incident on Thursday because it freaked me out, but okay.

So... who wants to distract me with Star Trek again?? Anyone? :)

The New Blanket

2009-05-05T22:35:00.005-04:00

This is the blanket I started after I finished the baby blanket. It doesn't have a name yet (ie Blue Blanket, Mom Blanket, Elliott blanket, etc) - I'm entertaining names. But c'mon... don't you love it?

Love for the Momma

2009-05-04T23:13:00.003-04:00

And yes... he was looking up at me. Seriously... so cute.

Strong Charissa #2

2009-05-03T13:56:00.008-04:00

So the last few photos came to you today by way of the Jones Falls Watershed Association volunteering in Reservoir Hill today. Casey, Jason and I planted EIGHT TREES - at least SIX where we dug the holes 100% by ourselves - in pouring rain. We were miserable and soaked, but it was good for the neighborhood and good for karma. (And, yes... I worked just as hard as the boys.)

Strong Charissa #1

2009-05-03T13:56:00.004-04:00

Boys A-Workin'

2009-05-03T11:03:00.002-04:00